Associates and Dissociates
The terms associate (assosiate) and associate (dissociate) are synonyms.
You may think it's "disassociate," but "dissociate" has been in use since the 1600s.
Searching for assosiate vs. dissociate as of 2018 is a good way to find articles related to neurolinguistic programming (NLP)
The idea of pairing the two was probably spread by NLP.
The word "dissociation" is translated in psychology as [dissociation
but the concept of dissociation and its usage in NLP does not seem to have much to do with
if you want to put it in Japanese
subjective ・ objective.
first-person perspective ・ third-person perspective
and other similar concepts.
Associate and associate are automatic.
How to associate:
Ask:
How do I feel (in this situation)?
How does this move me?
What is my passion?
How to dissociate:
Ask:
What is the relationship between me and X?
What is this really about?
What is the “big picture” here?
How would this appear from an objective point of view?
In Japan as of 2018, the usage is "Anger occurs"
(A Twitter search yields 28 observations in the last 24 hours." A Google search for "anger outbreak" yields 7600 hits.)
This is a good sample for associates/dissociates to consider.
Associated status
I'm pissed.
Painful and scary
Associated state
Anger is occurring.
The uncle is red-faced and actively asserting his opinion.
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